Why Is It So Hard to Be the Best People We Can Be?

Our souls come here to learn how to be the most loving, the least fearful and the best people we can be. They don’t come here to make piles of money, build incredible structures or receive awards. It is nice when these things happen but these accomplishments are not our souls’ prime objective.

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The Real Role of the “Black Sheep” of the Family

At most, there is only ever one black sheep in a herd. They say that every family has a “black sheep”. A very high percentage of the people I help, identify themselves as the “black sheep” of their families. When an individual enters my office for an initial session and identifies themselves as a “black sheep”, I get excited because I have helped so many see their greatness for the very first time! They see the label as a condemnation or a curse, and, certainly the label is a way to explain the loneliness they have experienced most of their lives. I see the label as a way to truly understand them.

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Halloween Unmasked

In my almost fifty years of celebrating Halloween, I never knew the reason we celebrate Halloween until now! Do YOU know where it originated?

The Celts started Halloween over 2000 years ago because they believed the barrier between our world and the world of spirits became really thin at the end of each summer. October 31st began a three-day festival dedicated to remembering the dead, including the saints (hallow) and martyrs. To this day, in many parts of the world, churches observe All Hallows’ Eve by holding services and lighting candles on the graves of the dead.

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Maximize Your Soul’s Growth

A woman came to me for life coaching. I listened intently while she shared her life story with me for about an hour and a half. As soon as she finished, I gave her my perceptions about her life, the incorrect belief system that she had allowed to run her life and one step she could implement to turn things around. She looked at me and asked incredulously, “What happened to you in your life that allowed you to help me like this? I have been to therapists and counsellors my whole life and NO ONE has understood me or my life the way you do.”

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